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影响经理人心灵成长的五封信

发布时间:2016-12-21
0岁以前,大部份的人是相同的,升学读书升学读书...,建立自己基础。

第一封:你的时间在那里

  联华电子总经理吴宏仁谈-「你的时间在那里」

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  【XUEHUIRENJIGUANXI,DUORENSHIJIJIDEPENGYOU,SHINIANHOUZHEIXIEPENGYOUDOUJIANGSHICHANYEDEZHONGJIAN】

花开棋牌   25 ~ 30SUI,NINXIANGYIKUAIHAIMIAN,NULIXISHOUYEGANXINBEIYAZHA,WEIDEZHISHIZIWODECHENGZHANG。ZHEISHIHOUDENIN,YINGSHIGONGZUOQUXIANG,XINSHUIDAIYU。SHENGQIANDIAOZHININYINGGAISHIJINJINJIJIAO。YINWEIWEIYOUNULIFUCHU,XIANGDUIDENINCAIGANJIJIZHENGQU,SHEHUIXINXIANRENDEDONGLIYINGGAIRANGNIN CHONGCHUZIJIDEYIPIANTIAN,YEYINWEIMEIYOUJINGYAN,SUOYIBUDONGCUOZHE。YINWEIZIYUANBUDUO,SUOYIYIQIEJINRENSHI,TINGTIANMING。XIANZAIDENIN:LINGQUBIERENDEXINSHUI,XUEXIBIERENDEJINGYAN,FUCHU ZIJIDEQINGCHUN,JIANGOUZIJIDEWEILAI。

  【XUEHUILEIJIJINGYAN,JIECHUJIHUI,LIANGSHIYIYOUDETIXIEGENGSHITISHENGNINCHENGZHANGDEDALIQI】

花开棋牌   30 ~ 35SUI,NINYAOXUEXIPANDUANJIHUI、ZHANGWOJIHUI,BUNENGZAIYOUCHANGSHICUOWUDEXINTAI。ZHEISHIHOUDENIN,YINGSHISHIYEQUXIANGHEJIATINGQUXIANG,GONGZUOYINGGAICONGTILIZHUANHUANWEINAOLI。NINYINGGAIKANDAODESHIYUANJING,ERFEIXIANKUANG,MIANDUIDESHIKUANGUANGRENSHENG,ERFEIJUXIANYUZIWO。JIEHUNSHIXUDUORENMIANLINRENSHENGDIYICIDEZHONGDAJUEZE,MIANDUIHUNYIN,HENDUORENYIWEIJIEHUNJIUSHIYIGEZERENDEJIESHU,SHUBUZHIZHENGSHIXUEXIDEKAISHI。JIUXIANGYIXIEGANGSHANGSHISHANGJUGONGSI,YIWEIMUBIAODACHENGLE,WANGLEZIJIDEQIYEZEREN,HULVEBENYE。FANERSHIYIGEEMENGDEKAISHI。

  RENDEBENYEBUJIUSHIJINGYINGZIJIDEJIATING,ZHUANQIANDEMUDEBUJIUXIWANGJIJIARENGENGHAODESHENGHUO,DANZHEIKEBUNENGCHENGWEIHULVEJIARENDEJIEKOU,YIGEJINGYINGBUHAOJIATINGDEREN,ZONGSHIZHUANDAOQUANSHIJIE,TADEDAODEZHISHIBIAOMIANDEZHANGSHENG,ZAITARENSHENGDEZHEIGEYUAN,YONGYUANYOUYIGEQUEKOU。JIAYINGGAISHININZUIDADEJINGSHENZHIZHU。DONGLILAIYUANHEJIANQIANGHOUDUN!

  【SHIJIANGUANLI,ZHUANHUAXINJING;ZHUANHUAYONGTOUNAOQUGONGZUO,BUYAOYONGSHENTIQUGONGZUO】

  35 ~ 40SUI,NINYAOXIANGSHOUJIRENXIWANG,GONGDEWULIANGDEGEJU。ZHEISHIHOUDENIN,YINGSHIQIYEQUXIANG,GONGZUOZHISHIYIZHONGXIUXIAN,GENGKEZHUANHUAWEIDUITARENDEZEREN。RUGUONINZHUANZHUYUYANJIU,NINYINGGAIBUZHIQIONGBISHENGZHILI。24XIAOSHIBUMIANBUXIUDEQUZUOKULININYINGGAIYOUCHENGLIYANJIUJIGOU,DAILINGYIQUNRENZUOGENGDUOYANFADEXIONGXINZHUANGZHI。RUGUONINSHIQIYEZHUGUAN,NINYINGGAIBUZHITINGLIUZAIJIJIYINGYING,JINJINJIJIAO,NINYINGGAIYOUNENGLIDANFUZHUDAOZHOUZAODEYUANGONG、JIAREN,DAILINGTAMENXIANGSHOUGENGHAODESHENGHUO。GEJUDEDAXIAO,HUIYINGXIANGNINCHENGJIUDEDUOSHAO,ZUOYIGEYOUYINGXIANGLIDEREN,ERFEIBEIYINGXIANGDEREN。

花开棋牌   【BULUNMUQIANNINDUOFENGGUANG。DUOYOUCHENGJIU,ZAININXINZHONGSHIFOUHUADECHUSHINIANHOUDENI?】

  JINGXINSIKAO!WOMENXIANZAISUOYOUNULIDEMUDEBUJIUSHIWEILEFUMU、LINGYIBAN、XIAOHAI、、、?GONGZUO,BUYINGGAIDENGYUSHIRENSHENG,GENGBUYINGGAISHIXUYAOJINGYINGYIBEIZIDESHI。SHIWENJIANKANG、CAIFU、ZIWOCHENGZHANG、RENJIGUANXIHESHIJIANZIYOU,SHENMESHININNULIGONGZUODEDONGLI?WOXIANGXINMEIYOURENKEYIFANGQIRENHEYIDIAN。ZHEIXIEZHENGSHICUSHIWOMENNIANQINGRENQIANJINDEDONGLI。SHINIANHOU,NINSHITIZAOWANCHENGTA?HAISHITIZAOFANGQITA?

花开棋牌   【NINGKEYINMENGXIANGERMANGLIU,BUYAOYINMANGLIUERSHIQUMENGXIANG】

花开棋牌   WOKANZHOUZAOYOUTAIDUOYOUXIUSHENYUWOSHUBEIDEPENGYOU,KEXIDESHIZHONGRIJIJIYINGYING,TOURUGENGDUODESHIJIAN、JINGSHEN、ZIYUAN,QUEMEIYOUXIANGSHOUDAOYINGDEDEDAIJIA,YUANYINWUTA,NULICUOFANGXIANG ,ZHAOCUOJIHUI,JUJUEJIHUIERJI。

  Jordan DALEYIBEIZIDELANQIU,SHIHENNANZAIBANGQIUCHANGSHANGZHAODAOZIJIDEWUTAI。BUYAORANGMANGLIUMENGBILENINDESHUANGYANZAIHUITOU:LIANPOLAOYI,SHANGNENGFANFOU?

  【NIDESHIJIANZAINEILI,CHENGJIUJIUZAINEILI】

花开棋牌   DANGNINYIGERENCHENGGONG,NINZHIXIANGSHOUDAOYIGERENDEKUAILE!DONGDEFENXIANGYUFUCHU,ZHENZHENGDEKUAILELAIZIYU:ZHOUZAODEQINYOUYINNINDECHENGZHANGERTISHENG,BULUNSHIJINGSHENHUOWUZHI。

  真正的成功来自于:周遭的亲友因您付出获得改善,给人希望功德无量。我们不是在做慈善事业,尚没有能力普渡众生,但是,我们可以发挥一己之力,对亲友,对那些有缘相遇的陌生朋友。伸出您的手,在他们需要的时候!太多人在等生命中的贵人,聪明如您,何不先从帮助他人开始? 
第二封:成为不被淘汰的上班族
花开棋牌   作者 Razorback Chopin是日本的管理大师大前研一

  成为不被淘汰的上班族!

  MEITIANTONGQINSHANGBAN,SHIZHONGYIGUOLEXIAWUWUDIAN,XINZHONGJIUANZIGAOXINGYOUKEYILINGJIABANFEI..,NIZHISHIYIGEBASHENXINHESHIJIAN,DANCHUNMAIJINIDELAOBAN、MEIYOUZIZHUXINGDESHANGBANZU?RUGUO,NIMINGTIANSHANGBAN,LAOBANYAONICONGJINYIHOU,BUBIDAOGONGSIBAODAO,MEITIANZAIJIALIGONGZUO,BINGGENJUNIGONGZUOCHANSHENGDEFUJIAJIAZHILAIJUEDINGXINZIDEHUA,NIJIUJINGKEYINADAODUOSHAOXINSHUI?NIKANKANQUGONGSUODEZHIYUAN,ZIJIDECHUANGKOUMEIMINZHONGLAI,JIUHEKAFEIKANBAOSHANGCESUO,MEITIANZUODESHIDOUSHUYU「XIAOHUAXINGDEYEWU」。RUGUOZHEIXIEGONGWUYUANXIANGTIGAOGONGZUODEFUJIAJIAZHI,DAKEYIDONGDONG,「XIANGXIANGRUHEBASHUJUWENJIANZHENGLIDEGENGHAOZHAO、GENGYOUZHIXU,RUCIJIUNENGBAZIJIDEGONGZUOTISHENGDAOCHUANGZAOXINGDEYEWU」。

  QUGONGSUODEZHIYUANZHISHIYIGELIZI,JINHOUZAISHUZIWANGLUODESHIDAI,YITONGDIANHUAJIUNENGSHENQINGHUJITENGBENHUOYINJIANZHENGMING,XIAOHUAXINGDEYEWUJIANGCONGWOMENDEZHOUZAOXIAOSHI。XIANZAI,FUWUYERENKOUZHANRIBENZONGJIUYERENKOUDELIUWU%,ZHEIGEBIZHONGJIANGYULAIYUGAO,BUJIUDEJIANGLAI,YUQIKESHENGGAODAOBA○%,JIESHI,FUWUYEDERENLIJIANGCHUXIANSANJIHUADEXIANXIANG。

  DIYILEIXINGSHI「DANCHUNLAODONGJIZHONGXING」,XIANGZAILVGUANPUCHUANGDAN、QINGSAODEFUWUSHENG,HUOZHESHIZAISUSHIDIANZHASHUTIAODEDIANYUAN。YOUXIEBAILINGJIEJIKANLAIWAIBIAOGUANGXIAN,SHENGRENYIDENG,QISHIHEHANBAODIANDEDIANYUANMEISHENMEBUTONG。

  WOCENGJINGNASANBAIWANRIYUANDAORIBENMOUYINXING,NALIDEXINGYUANZHIHUIQUANWOCUNCHENGDINGCUN,DANDANGWONADAOXIANGGANGDEYINXING,TAMENQUEHENJIJIDIXUNWENWOZHEIBIQIANSHIFOUBUJIZHEYONG,XIANGBANFABANGWOSHEJIYITAOZIJINYUNYONGJIHUA。RIBENDEYINXINGXINGYUAN,HEZHIHUIZHASHUTIAODEDIANYUANSHIYIYANGDE。

花开棋牌   DIERSHI「ZHISHILAODONGJIZHONGXING」,CONGSHIDESHIZHISHIFUJIAJIAZHIDEGONGZUO,DANYISHIJIANJISUANJIXIN,YOUCHENG「ZHISHILANLINGJIEJI」。LIRUGONGCHENGSHI,SHOURUSHIDIYILEIXINGDESI、WUBEIYISHANG。BUGUO,ZHISHILANLINGJIEJI,RUZHIHUISIJIFALVTIAOWENDELVSHI、ZHIHUIJIZHANGDEHUIJISHI、ZHIHUIZUNXUNJIAOYUBUZHISHIDEJIAOYUAN,JIANGLAIDOUKENENGBEIGUANGPANCD─ROMQUDAI。

  ZAIMEIGUO,YIJINGCHUXIANYIPIANZHIYAOJIU、BAMEIYUANDEGUANGPAN,JIAOZUO「Quicken」DEJIAJIBU,YIBANJIATINGBUXUYAOQIUZHUHUIJISHI,JIUNENGSUANQINGSHOUZHIQINGKUANG。HAIYOUYIZHONGJIAO「Family Lawyer」DERUANTI,NANGKUOYIBANZUYUE、LIHUN、YISHU、BAOXIANDEFALVWENTI,SHENGQUDASHIXIAOSHIQIUZHULVSHIDEMAFAN。

  ZHEIXIERUANJIANBAODEWENSHI,YUQIJIANGZAOCHENGJIU○%DELVSHI、JIUWU%DEHUIJISHILUNLUOCHENGRUANJIANBAODECAOZUOYUAN。YAOBIMIANBUBEIRUANJIANQUDAIHUOTAOTAI,ZHIYOUNULICHUANGZAOGUANGPANTIGONGBULEDEFUJIAJIAZHI,LIRUHUOYONGRUANJIANBAO,WEIGUKEFENXITOUAZHONGBAOXIANYOUSHENMELIYI,TOUBAOBBAOXIANFENGXIANCHENGDURUHEDENG。YISHENGYESHI,RIBENGUOQUWEILEPEIYUYISHENG,ZAIMEIYIXIANDOUSHELIYISUOYIXUEYUAN,XIANZAISHIZAIYOUXIEGONGGUOYUQIU,YISHENGRUGUOZHISHIKAIZHEMEN,XIAOJIDIXIBIANRENSHANGMENQIUZHENDEHUA,CHIZAOHUIGUANMENDAJI。DANSHIXIANDAIRENHENYUANYIZAI「YUFANGJIBING」SHANGHUADAQIAN,RUGUOYISHENGCONG「YIBING」ZHUANBIANWEI「JIANKANGGUWEN」DEHUA,HUIYOUGENGDADEFAZHANKONGJIAN。DISANZESHI「ZHISHIBAILING」,YIZHISHIFUJIAJIAZHIDECHENGGUOLAIJUEDINGXINZI,HEDIERLEIXINGDEXINZISHOURUCHAJUBIEGENGDA。DIERLEIXINGDEJISUANJIHUITUYUANNIANSHOURUYIQIANLIANGBAIWANRIYUAN(YUESANBAIWANTAIBI),DISANLEIXINGDEZHISHIBAILINGDENIANXIN,ZHISHAOSHISIBEI,SHENZHI?BEIYISHANG。ZHISHIBAILINGBIXUHEFENBUQUANQIUDEGONGZUOHUOBAN,SHICHANGBAOCHILIANXIGOUTONG,SUOYIYINGWENNENGLISHIBIXUDE,ERQIEYAOXIANGHAOLAIWUDAOYANSHIDIFENSHIBIBOYIYANG,HUIXIEJUBENYOUHUIZHIZUO,JUBEIGAODUDEDUOXIANGGONGZUONENGLI。

花开棋牌   SHANGBANZUYAORUHETISHENGZIJIWEIZHISHIBAILING?

  DIYI,BUZUOZHISHILANCHONG。

  TOUZIZIJI,TIGAOZIJIDEFUJIAJIAZHI,PEIYANGZIJIBULUNCHUYUSHENMEQINGKUANGXIA,DOUNENGCUNHUODEBENLING。NIKEYIZAISHANGBANSHIJIANDONGNAOJINSIKAOGAIJINZIJIDEGONGZUO,HUOZHELIYONGXIABANXIUXISHIJIANCHONGDIANXUEXI。WORENWEICONGSANSHIWUSUIDAOWUSHISUISHI「MOGUIDESHIWUNIAN」,YINWEISANSHIWUSUIDERENDADUOJINRUGONGSIYOUSHINIANDENIANZI,GONGZUOSHULIANZHIHOU,JIUBUQIUZHISHISHANGZHANGJIN,ZHIHUIJIJIYURENJIGUANXI,ZIWOFAZHANTINGDUN,JINRUMOGUIDESHIWUNIAN。

花开棋牌   DIER,BUYAOJIZIJISHEXIAN,TEBIESHIGONGSIDE「ZHIWUGUIDING」,YOUHAIYUPEIYANGZHISHIBAILING。

花开棋牌     GONGSIXUDUOCHENGWENHUOBUCHENGWENDEGUIDING,DOUBUXIANGXINYUANGONG,BAYUANGONGDANGXIAOHAIZIKANDAI。LIRUCHUCHAFEIYONGDINGDESISIDE,PIJIU、XIAOCAIDOUBUNENGBAOZHANG,DANRUGUOBAOZHANGDEYUANGONGPANDUANZHEIXIEHUAFEI,DUIGONGSIYOUGONGXIAN,QIYEYINGGAIXIANGXINYUANGONG,SHOUQUANJUEDING。SANNIANQIAN,WOZAIRILIDAIDEDANWEI,YIGEYUEDIANHUAFEISHANGXIANSHIYIWANRIYUAN,DAWANDIANHUAHAIYAOZAIGUIDINGDEBIJIBENSHANG,JIRUDADEDUIFANGHESHIJIAN。HAIJIDEYOUTIANXIAWU,WOZAIGONGSIHOUYUANSANBU,ZONGWUBUDERENYAOWOHUIZUOWEI。「WEISHENME?」WOWEN。「XIANZAISHISHANGBANSHIJIAN,」ZONGWUBUDERENHUIDA。「WOZAISHEJISHANGYOUXIANGBUTONGDEDIFANG,XIANGZAIQINGJINGDEDIFANG,SIKAOYIXIA,」WOSHUOMING。「BUXING,QINGNIZAIWEIZISHANGSIKAO,」ZONGWUBUDERENYILIANBUYUE。WOYIZHIRENWEI,YIZUNXUNGONGSIGUIDINGWEIZUIGAOZHUNZEDEREN,RUHENENGZAIWEILAICHUANGZAOXINDEGUIZE?ZHIHUIZUANYING、XIANGBANFASHENGQIANDEREN,ZENNENGZHANSHANGWUGUOJIEJINGZHENGDESHIJIEWUTAI?

花开棋牌   DISAN,BUYAOPAFANCUO,YAOYOUYONGQIZHONGXINKAISHI。

花开棋牌   MEIYOUSHIBAIGUODERENHEQIYE,XIANGFAJIANGYING,WORENWEISANSHISUIQIANYINGGAISHIBAISANCIYISHANG。DANDADUOSHUDENIANQINGREN,DOUBEIWOMENDEJIAOYUTIXIJIAODAOCHENGHAIPASHIBAI、BIMIANSHIBAI。ERQIEHENDUOREN,BUNENGFOUDINGZIWO,PAYINCISHIQUJIYOUDEYIQIE,DANRUGUOMEIYOUFOUDINGZIWODEYONGQI,GEREN、QIYEHEGUOJIADOUSHIQUCHUANGXINDENENGLI。KANKANJISUANJIYUYAN,ERSHIWUNIANBIANLEWUHUI,JIADIANCHANPINDEGONGNENGGENGSHIYIDAICHAOYUEYIDAI。ZHEIXIEJINBUDOUSHICONGFOUDINGTUIFANCHUFA,JINGYINGSHOUFAYOUHECHANGBUSHI。WOHAIYOUYIGEJINGYAN,BUYAOXIANGHENKEXI,ERYAOYOUSUISHIDOUZHONGTOULAIDEYONGQI,XIANGDAOKEXI,RENSHENGJIUSHIBAILEYIBAN。RUGUODANGSHIWODAYINGLIUZAIRILI,JIUBUHUIDAOMAIKENXIFAZHAN。WUSHISUISHI,WOTUICHUMAIKENXI,SHAOHOUCANXUANYIYUANHEDONGJINGDOUZHANG,HOULAIJUEDINGCONGCIBUCANYUZHENGZHIHUODONG,DOUMEIYOUYISI「KEXI」DEXINLI。NIANQINGRENGENGKEYIZHONGTOULAI,DANJUEDINGDESHIHOUXUYAONADEQIFANGDEXIADEYONGQI,BUNENGLIUHOULU,YAOYOUPOFUCHENZHOUDEJUEXIN。

花开棋牌   DISI,BUTIAOGONGZUO。

  我在麦肯锡看过几千人,成功和不成功的人有一个清楚的差别,成功的人不论什么工作都不挑。不讨厌、不选择工作,不论什么工作都积极地,站在顾客立场思考,从中一定可以学习成长。 


第三封 人的一生追求什么

花开棋牌   有一个美国商人坐在墨西哥海边一个小渔村的码头上, 看着一个墨西哥渔夫划着一艘小船靠岸。小船上有好几尾大黄鳍鲔鱼,这个美国商人对墨西哥渔夫能抓这么高档的鱼恭维了一番,还问要多少时间才能抓这么多?

  MOXIGEYUFUSHUO,CAIYIHUIERGONGFUJIUZHUADAOLE。MEIGUORENZAIWEN,NIWEISHENMEBUDAIJIUYIDIAN,HAODUOZHUAYIXIEYU?

  MOXIGEYUFUJUEDEBUYIWEIRAN: ZHEIXIEYUYIJINGZUGOUWOYIJIARENSHENGHUOSUOXULA!

  MEIGUORENYOUWEN:NEIMENIYITIANSHENGXIANEIMEDUOSHIJIANDOUZAIGANSHENME?

花开棋牌   MOXIGEYUFUJIESHI:WOYA?WOMEITIANSHUIDAOZIRANXING,CHUHAIZHUAJI TIAOYU,HUILAIHOUGENHAIZIMENWANYIWAN,ZAIGENLAOPOSHUIGEWUJUE,HUANGHUNSHIHUANGDAOCUNZILIHEDIANXIAOJIU,GENGEERMENWANWANJITA,WODERIZIKEGUODECHONGMANYOUMANGLIUNI!

  MEIGUORENBUYIWEIRAN,BANGTACHUZHUYI,TASHUO:WOSHIMEIGUOHAFODAXUEQIGUANSHUOSHI,WODAOSHIKEYIBANGNIMANG!NIYINGGAIMEITIANDUOHUAYIXIESHIJIANQUZHUAYU,DAOSHIHOUNIJIUYOUQIANQUMAITIAODAYIDIANDECHUAN。ZIRANNIJIUKEYIZHUAGENGDUOYU,ZAIMAIGENGDUOYUCHUAN。RANHOUNIJIUKEYIYONGYOUYIGEYUCHUANDUI。DAOSHIHOUNIJIUBUBIBAYUMAIJIYUFANZI,ERSHIZHIJIEMAIJIJIAGONGCHANG。RANHOUNIKEYIZIJIKAIYIJIAGUANTOUGONGCHANG。RUCINIJIUKEYIKONGZHIZHENGGESHENGCHAN、JIAGONGCHULIHEXINGXIAO。RANHOUNIKEYILIKAIZHEIGEXIAOYUCUN,BANDAOMOXIGECHENG,ZAIBANDAOLUOSHANJI,ZUIHOUDAONIUYUE。ZAINEILIJINGYINGNIBUDUANKUOCHONGDEQIYE。

  MOXIGEYUFUWEN:ZHEIYOUHUADUOSHAOSHIJIANNI?

花开棋牌   MEIGUORENHUIDA:SHIWUDAOERSHINIAN。

  RANHOUNI?

  MEIGUORENDAXIAOZHESHUO:RANHOUNIJIUKEYIZAIJIADANGHUANGDILA!SHIJIYIDAO,NIJIUKEYIXUANBUGUPIAOSHANGSHI,BANIDEGONGSIGUFENMAIJITOUZIDAZHONG。DAOSHIHOUNIJIUFALA!NIKEYIJIYIJIYIDIZHUAN!

  RANHOUNI?

  MEIGUORENSHUO:DAONEIGESHIHOUNIJIUKEYITUIXIULA!NIKEYIBANDAOHAIBIANDEXIAOYUCUNQUZHU。MEITIANSHUIDAOZIRANXING,CHUHAISUIBIANZHUAJITIAOYU,GENHAIZIMENWANYIWAN,ZAIGENLAOPOSHUIGEWUJUE,HUANGHUNSHI,HUANGDAOCUNZILIHEDIANXIAOJIU,GENGEERMENWANWANJITALUO!

  墨西哥渔夫疑惑的说:我现在不就是这样了吗?人的一生,到底在追求甚么? 


第四封:幸福很单纯

  有位心理学家曾写道,一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情

花开棋牌   BIXUJINGGUOSIGEJIEDUAN,NEIJIUSHI:

花开棋牌   GONGCUN(Codependent)

  FANYILAI(Counterdependent)

  DULI(Independent)

  GONGSHENG(Interdependent)

花开棋牌   JIEDUANZHIJIANZHUANHUANSUOXUDESHIJIANBUYIDING,YINRENERYI。

  DIYIGEJIEDUAN:GONGCUN。

花开棋牌   ZHEISHIRELIANSHIQI,QINGRENBULUNHESHIHEDIZONGXIWANGNENGNIZAIYIQI。

  DIERGEJIEDUAN:FANYILAI。

  DENGDAOQINGGANWENDINGHOU,ZHISHAOHUIYOUYIFANGXIANGYAOYOUDUOYIDIANZIJIDESHIJIANZUOZIJIXIANGZUODESHI,ZHEISHI

  LINGYIFANGJIUHUIGANDAOBEILENGLUO。

花开棋牌   DISANGEJIEDUAN:DULI。

花开棋牌   ZHEISHIDIERGEJIEDUANDEYANXU,YAOQIUGENGDUODULIZIZHUDESHIJIAN。

花开棋牌   DISIGEJIEDUAN:GONGSHENG。

花开棋牌   ZHEISHIXINDEXIANGCHUZHIDAOYIJINGCHENGXING,NI(NAI)DETA(TA)YIJINGCHENGWEINI(NAI)ZUIQINDEREN。

  NIMENZAIYIQIXIANGHUFUCHI、YIQIKAICHUANGSHUYUNIMENZIJIDERENSHENG。

  NIMENZAIYIQIBUHUIHUXIANGQIANZHI,ERHUIHUXIANGCHENGZHANG。

  DANSHI,DABUFENDERENDOUTONGBUGUODIERHUODISANJIEDUAN,ERXUANZEFENSHOUYITU,ZHEISHIFEICHANGKEXIDE。HENDUOSHIZHIYAOHAOHAOGOUTONGDOUHUIMEISHIDE,BUYAOSHUAGEXING,BUYAOXIANGTAIDUOYAOHUXIANGXINREN,ZHEIYANGDIER、SANJIEDUANDESHIJIANJIUHUISUODUAN。HESUOAIDERENXIANGYUXIANGLIANSHIFEICHANGBURONGYIDE,BUYAOQINGYANFANGQI。LIANGRENXIANGJUSHIYINWEIYOUYUAN,XIANGZHISHIYINWEIYOUXIN,ZHENDEDEHAOHAOZHENXIZHEIFUFENMOSHUOFENSHOUBUSHIWUYOU,XIWANGKANDAOSHANGSHUDESIGEJIEDUAN,ZHENNENGJIDAJIAYIXIEQISHIYULINGWUBINGXIYUAN,WOMENHUIZHUJIANBIANCHENGWOMENSUOAIDEREN。

花开棋牌   NAIHETABENLAIMEIYOUXIANGTONGZHICHU,WAIBIAOBUXIANGXIANG,XINGGEYESHINANYUANBEIZHE,YIDANAISHANGLE,NIANSHENRIJIU,NAIHUIJINGYANAIDEYANJINGYOUDIANXIANGTADEYANJING,TADEWEIXIAOYEYOUDIANXIANGNAIDEWEIXIAO。NIMENZOULUDEBUFAYEYOUDIANXIANGSI,SHUOHUADEYUQIYEYULAIYUXIANGXIANG。TADEBOZISHANGYOUYIKEZHI,YITIAN,NAIFAXIANZIJIBOZISHANGYEDUOLEYIKEZHI,YUANLAIWOMENHUIBIANCHENGWOMENSUOAIDEREN。

  NAIBENLAIXIHUANJIAOTASHIDIDEREN,ERTAYIXIANGBIJIAOQINGTIAO,DANNIMENAISHANGLE,TAJINGHUIBUZHIBUJUEBIANCHENGYIGELAOSHIREN,ZHEIGEGAIBIAN,LIANTAZIJIYEBUCENGCHAJUE。TABENLAIXIHUANHUOPODENVHAIZI,QUEAISHANGLEJUJINDENAI,ZHEIXIERIZI,NAIJINGYULAIYUHUOPO,NAICHADIANRENBUCHUZIJI。ZHUJIANBIANCHENGDUIFANGLIXIANGZHONGDEREN,ZHEIZHONGGAIBIAN,JUEDUIBUSHIKEYIDE。

  LIANGGERENYUAIDEZHANGJIU,QIZHIYEYULAIYUXIANGJIN,NAICENGJINGYIWEITABUSHINAIMENGMEIYIQIUDENEIZHONGLEIXING,RANER,YOUYITIAN,NAIJINGYADIFAXIAN,TAYIJINGBIANCHENGNAIXIHUANDENEIZHONGLEIXING,NAIBUBIZAIDAOCHUXUNMI,TAJIUSHINAIYAOZHAODEREN。SHENSHENAIZHEYIGERENDESHIHOU,NAIYUANLAIZHENDEHUIYIDIANYIDIANDESHIQUZIJI,WEISHENMENAIHAIHUIJUEDEKUAILENI?DAGAISHIYINWEINAIZAISHIQUDEDANGER,YESHIZHUANLE,NAIBATADEQIZHIHETADEWEIXIAODOUZHUANHUILAI。

花开棋牌   XINGFUHENDANCHUN

花开棋牌   SUOYIYAOHENDANCHUNDERENCAIRONGYIHUODE.......

  地球这么大,世界这么广,不去走走看,怎么知道你的黑夜是别人的白天。 


第五封:争吵的目的

  吵架的时候,什么最重要?

  JIAOAO?ZIZUN?MIANZI?SHUYING?ZHEIXIEDOUBUZHONGYAO,ZUIZHONGYAODERENGRANSHINIXINAIDENEIGEREN,ZUIZHONGYAODERENGRANSHINIMENZHEIFENDELAIBUYIDEGANQING........BENLAI,ZAIAIQINGLI,BUGUANSHIZHENGZHIHUOCHONGTU,ZHIYAOZUIHOUNENGXIEDIAO、NENGHUAJIEJIUHAOLE,NAYOUSHENMEYINGZHEHUOSHUJIA?

  ZHENYAOZHENGSHEIYINGSHEISHU,SHEIYOUMIANZISHEIYOUDISHENGXIAQI,ZUIHOUPEISHANGDEZHISHIZHEIFENGANQING,SHEIYEMEIYING,SHIJISHANGSHILIANGBAIJUSHANG。

花开棋牌   YOUMEIYOUXIANGGUO,ZHENGCHAODEMUDESHIWEISHENME?

  QISHIBUSHIDANCHUNDEWEILEDAOLIJIANGLI,ERSHIDUIFANGBUKENRANGNI,NANSHENGNVSHENGYIRAN,YINCIZHENGCHAODAOLEZUIHOU,QISHIZAOYIPIANLIZHUTI,ERSHIWEILEDUYIKOUQI。HAODADEYIKOUQI,DAIJIABUZI。

  HEHAODESHIHOU,CAITIRENCHUNEIXIELEIYEBAILIULE,QIYEBAISHENGLE,SHIHEBI?HAISHIHUOGAI?RENSHENGQIDESHIHOU,SHENMEHENJUEDEHUADOUSHUODECHULAI,SHENMEEDUDESHIYEZUODECHULAI,DANYOUQINGRENSHENGQIDESHIHOU,YEBIDINGBAOYOUWENNUANDEQINGHUAI,JIUKANNAIKANBUKANDECHULAI,ERNAIKANBUKANDECHULAI,JIUKANNAILEBULEJIETA,XINBUXINRENTA。

花开棋牌   SHENGQISHIBUSHUOQIHUAYEBUZUOESHI,ZHENDEHENNAN,DANQIMAYAOXUEHUITUIERQIUQICI,DONGDECONGZHONGQUGANSHOUYUANBENJIUCUNZAIYULIANGRENJIANDEQINGYI,BUXIAOTAIDUONAOLI,QISHIZHIYAOYONGYIDIANXIN。YOUAIQINGDESHIHOU,QISHISHENMEDOUHAOTAN,DANYIBANRENBUYIFAXIAN,YEBUTAIHUILIYONGZHEIGEDAOLI。

  NIXIANGDANGYIGECONGMINGDEREN,HAISHIGAOMINGDEREN?

  CONGMINGSHIZHISHANG,GAOMINGSHIZHINENG。

  CONGMINGSHIXIANGWAIKAITUO,GAOMINGSHIWANGNEIXUNQIU。

  CONGMINGSHIYITOUNAOSIKAO,GAOMINGSHIYONGXINQUXIANG。

  CONGMINGSHIYONGBILICHIHUACHUJINGMIDESHEJITU,GAOMINGSHIWUSUOWEIERWEIDESUISHOUTUYA。

  CONGMINGSHIGANHANSHIDEZAOYUJI、YANSHUIHOUDECHOUSHUIJI,GAOMINGSHISUISHISUIDIDEBAOCHIYUNDANFENGQING。

  CONGMINGSHIZAIYIBEIKAFEILIBIANHUACHUSHUZHONGHUAYANG,GAOMINGSHICONGYIZHANQINGSHUIZHONGGANJUECHUDANCHUNDEGANTIAN。

  CONGMINGSHITIANSHENGDEYOUSHI,GAOMINGZEKAOHOUTIANDEYANGCHENG;RUGUOBUGOUCONGMING,MEIGUANXI,NIZHISHAOKEYIBAZIJIDELINGHUNDUANLIANDEGENGGAOMING。

花开棋牌   SHIDE,ZHEILIJIUSHUODAOZHONGDIANLE:CONGMINGDERENKEYIZHEFUBIEREN,GAOMINGDERENQUENENGBAIPINGZIJI。